At the beginning of a relationship or even friendship with a guy, it is very important to know whether he likes you or not.
Figuring out if a guy likes you can be tricky too. Since most guys are not very expressive, especially early on in a relationship, you have to depend on the hints and actions of guys to figure out if they like you.
When you are Cuddling with someone, you are in physical contact with them, which means you already have some level of comfort with them.
This usually happens when the people in contact have developed comfort within each other’s touch. We tend to cuddle most with those with whom we are in a romantic relationship. Cuddling also helps to reduce your stress and anxiety, as it involves physical touch. However, cuddling is focused on intimacy and pleasure as well.
If you have experienced a guy cuddling you, but you guys have not confessed any feelings to each other. This might make you question whether he likes you or not? Today we will be discussing just that.
If a guy cuddles with you all night, does he like you?
If a guy cuddles with you all night, it shows that he is genuinely attracted to you and feels extremely comfortable with you. If he has not confessed his feelings for you yet, this is a clear sign that he likes you or perhaps even loves you.
Boys might not say it aloud, but they find cuddling sweet and calming. Hence, if they are cuddling with you, then it is a choice they have made consciously or subconsciously after reaching a certain level of intimacy and comfort with you. If a boy has cuddled with you all night, he surely has feelings for you.
However, there might be something more to it.
He might not be looking for something serious.
If he is cuddling you all night, he surely finds comfort in you and is interested in you, but that doesn’t necessarily mean he is looking for something serious.
You shouldn’t get your hopes too high cause he may or may not have strong feelings for you, and there could be other factors behind him cuddling with you all night.
He might just not be in the right headspace due to how his life has been lately. It could be something related to his college friends or with his relationship with his parents taking a toll, the work environment that he is juggling, etc., and cuddling while sleeping helped him calm down and get comfortable.
One thing is clear he is comfortable around you and likes you, but you shouldn’t build something up in your mind just because of this one incident.
He is really interested in you.
It could also be possible that he is interested in you and have strong feelings for you. Guys don’t show their vulnerable side easily in front of others, and if he is cuddling with you all night, then it shows how comfortable he is with you, which of course, is a sign that he genuinely likes you or perhaps even loves you.
If he makes you feel safe and at the same time gives you butterflies in your stomach, then he might just want you really bad.
He would be dropping hints while cuddling, which you can focus upon, or you can even see how and about what he talks to you to get surety on his feelings.
If he asks you before cuddling, is very gentlemanly around you, and respects you while cuddling too, he might be interested in you and wants to have something deep and meaningful with you.
You can also tell so much about the guy by how he looks at you or holds you, right? Just see if you feel that intensity and love in his gestures. If yes, then he would have strong feelings for you, but he might have just not got to confess it to you yet. However, we believe it will happen soon, yay!
He might be the temporary one.
And finally, it is also possible that he does this with a new girl every few weeks, and you shouldn’t get too attached to him just yet.
He would just be there for the night or a few weeks, to say the max. He would be the kind of guy that is very good at talking and flirting, just like how they show in movies and series, the bad boy types, who is the perfect heart-breaker, but not the commitment and promising one for sure.
Hence, he is just there for the physical aspect of it and doesn’t have any feelings for you.
If you are someone who gets attached quickly and takes forever to recover, then we would suggest you avoid this guy.
However, if you are also in the zone where you just want to chill and don’t want anything serious, just looking for something casual, then there is no harm in being with this guy
What does it mean when a guy cuddles you?
If a guy cuddles you, it could mean many different things. Maybe he really likes you, he is stressed or going through a rough patch, or perhaps he just enjoys the physical part of it.
You can check how he cuddles with you to understand what it means. Here are a few things you can look out for-
Is he kind and selfless around you-
While cuddling with this guy, you can look for certain signs about his approach toward you. If he is not selfish while cuddling, if he wants to cuddle the way you like more, and that makes him happy, then surely you mean a lot to him.
When it comes to physical contact, if the person you are with is ready to be non-selfish with you, then they really do like you. Whenever you think of someone important in your life, you realize how many things they have done selflessly for you, and you have done selflessly for them.
Hence, whenever someone is extra selfless with you, their feelings for you are real, and you can trust them.
Is he avoiding long physical contact?
While cuddling, you can notice when he seems a little distant. You might want to be closer, but he feels his space would intrude a lot; hence he might not be all into you.
If he breaks the physical contact frequently and joins it again, it might seem weird to you, and this would also mean he is not sure of this relationship, and uncertainties could easily mean that he would not be seriously interested.
The Bottom Line:
If you really like the guy, then cuddling with him would be bliss. Making sure that he likes you too would be the cherry on top of the cake! Try using hints and clues to see if he likes you. Also, remember you do not have to be sad if he doesn’t like you, there are other fishes in the sea. If you having a hard time knowing if he likes you or not, then just ask him out, as simple as that